A friend of mine called me last night, completely in shock and panicked. She could barely talk, she was crying a lot and unable to say anything. At first, I thought that her fiancé or her parents had a car accident. It was not that. Last night, she found out that her husband-to-be next year had been cheating on her. For months, almost a year. It started on the Internet, on several dating sites... He was clearly not innocent!!! It was not a one time thing, it was not only with one woman, he met several women during that time. I don't know what's the appropriate word in English to describe him, something like a jerk I believe?
The wedding is off. Her heart is broken in thousand pieces, can you imagine... She had been with that guy for two years and now, she feels that her life is over. She thought he was the one, he wanted to marry her. Now, she feels so betrayed by someone she loved. She feels stupid that she had not been able to see who he was for real... He was clearly not the guy she thought he was. She never thought that he was that type of disgusting guy! She thought everything was fine, that everything was working well between the two of them. Her pain is so intense.
It made me think a lot... How can we really know someone? These days, with online dating sites, it is so easy to cheat like that and think that we will never get cut... And I'm sure a lot of guys did not get cut... Do you think a girl could forgive a guy for doing such a thing?! I don't think so, it is such a big betrayal... Afterwards, trust is completely broken and hard to rebuild...
